You can have fun dating again!
Fun Date Coach can help you!
Alright I know you may not agree right now, but you too can actually have fun dating again! If Fund Date Coach did, so can you! For years I dated different people always ending up disappointed that this person did not meet my "perfect" list. They were too short, not the right age, not the right look, and the list of excuses goes on and on. Sound familiar? Don't worry, you are not alone. Most of us have the "list" that never gets fulfilled! I am not saying a basic list is bad. In fact, we should all create a list of the most important qualities that we want in a relationship. However, there are optional items on our list that might not be as important as we think in the long run.
Some of us get to a certain age and say "I am better off without anyone". Of course it is fine to choose being single, as long as you really "choose" to be single. Many of us don't really choose being single. We just get resigned and cynical over time and give up. If this is you, don't worry, Fun Date Coach would love to help you. I have been there before! Don't you think it is finally time for you to enjoy dating?
I know you might not want to waste your time dating someone who is not the person you will marry or become your life partner. But what if every person you meet is the KEY to eventually meeting the person of your dreams? Instead of thinking of this person as a waste of time, what if you thought of this person as a very helpful person who helped you grow and become closer to your dream mate? Do you remember times in your life when you were just having fun with friends, family, on the job? You almost felt like a kid again- you were having so much fun! Some of your best times were when you were not "expecting" anything. Letting go of attachment frees you up to really be yourself. Once you are yourself, you will not only have more fun but you can really see clearly and possibly find the partner of your dreams. Also, if you just want to date, there is nothing wrong with that as long as you are honest with your dating partner.
Letting go of being attached to the outcome is so freeing! When I finally decided to go out and have fun and enjoy my dates, I was able to find the person of my dreams. I found the most wonderful man. He is patient, wise, kind, intelligent, loving and lots of FUN! He accepts me just like I am. He never wants to change me. How did I find this man? I let go of any attachment of being with him. I went on dates with only one purpose- to have fun and get to know him better. After each date I checked in with myself to see if I had a great time. I decided to keep dating him as long as I was enjoying myself. Well, guess what, 6 years later I am still having a great time with this wonderful man. I have learned so much and have grown more than I have in my entire life. I am so grateful that I finally threw away my list of shallow qualifications and found a real man.
Your odds of finding someone very special is a lot higher if you are in action, learning and growing from the experience, working on yourself, and not being attached to the results. This is a unique opportunity for people in life to go beyond what they know about dating and relationships. You will have fun and maybe meet that extraordinary person you have dreamed of!
Some of us get to a certain age and say "I am better off without anyone". Of course it is fine to choose being single, as long as you really "choose" to be single. Many of us don't really choose being single. We just get resigned and cynical over time and give up. If this is you, don't worry, Fun Date Coach would love to help you. I have been there before! Don't you think it is finally time for you to enjoy dating?
I know you might not want to waste your time dating someone who is not the person you will marry or become your life partner. But what if every person you meet is the KEY to eventually meeting the person of your dreams? Instead of thinking of this person as a waste of time, what if you thought of this person as a very helpful person who helped you grow and become closer to your dream mate? Do you remember times in your life when you were just having fun with friends, family, on the job? You almost felt like a kid again- you were having so much fun! Some of your best times were when you were not "expecting" anything. Letting go of attachment frees you up to really be yourself. Once you are yourself, you will not only have more fun but you can really see clearly and possibly find the partner of your dreams. Also, if you just want to date, there is nothing wrong with that as long as you are honest with your dating partner.
Letting go of being attached to the outcome is so freeing! When I finally decided to go out and have fun and enjoy my dates, I was able to find the person of my dreams. I found the most wonderful man. He is patient, wise, kind, intelligent, loving and lots of FUN! He accepts me just like I am. He never wants to change me. How did I find this man? I let go of any attachment of being with him. I went on dates with only one purpose- to have fun and get to know him better. After each date I checked in with myself to see if I had a great time. I decided to keep dating him as long as I was enjoying myself. Well, guess what, 6 years later I am still having a great time with this wonderful man. I have learned so much and have grown more than I have in my entire life. I am so grateful that I finally threw away my list of shallow qualifications and found a real man.
Your odds of finding someone very special is a lot higher if you are in action, learning and growing from the experience, working on yourself, and not being attached to the results. This is a unique opportunity for people in life to go beyond what they know about dating and relationships. You will have fun and maybe meet that extraordinary person you have dreamed of!
Why hire a Fun Date Coach?
Sometimes we need a little support with the dating process. Dating Coach Cathy helps young, midlife or older women have more fun, feel more confident, meet more men, understand men and possibly date online if you choose to do so. As your fun date coach, I can help you enjoy the dating process and/or support you in creating the possibility of a loving relationship. (I also coach men who want to create the possibility for a loving relationship and want to settle down with an amazing woman.
Get the expert dating guidance and support you need to be successful in your dating and/or relationship journey!
I would recommend a dating coach if:
If even one of these statements fits with you, dating coaching with Cathy will make all the difference in your ability to have fun on dates and possibly find love.
If having fun on dates is what you only desire, I can help you:
1. Have fun on your dates! Dating doesn't have to be a chore, you can have fun and continue to learn about yourself.
2. Be more present on dates. If you show the real you, the odds that your partner might also be real are alot higher.
3. Plan great dates that will be a hit!
4. Provide you dating ebooks to read and discuss
5. Help you create your online ad and support you in the online process.
6. Support you with breakdowns, fears, conversations, questions, etc. between dates
If you want to create the possibility of attracting a loving relationship, I can help you
1. Have dating be a fun and learning process. I will help you with all the 6 areas above
2. Create a great foundation for you to find a loving partner through questions, exercises and coaching conversations.
3. Create your very own "Owner's Manual for Love and Relationship".
You can give this very special manual to a potential partner. The manual will be your very own book about who you really are which usually brings relationships closer because the person can trust and respect your vulnerability. If he/she get scared away from knowing the real you, then aren't you glad that you didn't waste any more time on a partner that is not for you? Either way. the manual is a huge support for what you are up to in relationships. Below are some topics for the manual:
The purpose of giving this manual to someone you are seriously dating or in a relationship with is to share who you are and what you want in relationship, your fears, self defense, essence, what you want in a relationship, commitments in life and future goals. This manual takes away the mystery and/or games of hiding the parts of you that you are not as proud of. Eventually these things will get figured out and usually upsets occur because the other person is shocked by this discovery. This way the cards are on the table. With the information in the manual, they can see it isn't personal when you get scared. This is only what you do, not who you are. As you open up, you will find out that your partner will also become more vulnerable and honest.
The manual will also provide your partner access to when you are afraid and can consider pointing it out. It's like turn to chapter 2 and say, "I notice what you are doing x...., you seem to be afraid". Your partner will realize it is your stuff from the past, and not about you. By exposing and acknowledging these uncomfortable parts of you, it takes some of the fear away. Acknowledging fears is the first step to overcoming them. Hiding them keeps them around.
Making this manual will create vulnerability and risk which is needed to build trust in relationship. You and your partner can explore the possibility of an authentic relationship with all of you. This manual isn't created overnight. As your coach, I will support you with questions and exercises to create this manual. But in the meantime, I want you to go out and have fun on dates!
Coaching Logistics
I will coach you for one hour a week over the phone or in person (if you live in San Jose or the Bay Area) for the first two sessions to establish a plan. We will then do weekly follow up calls for one hour to discuss your dating plan and possibilities! It will take two to three months to establish a basic foundation that will really help you enjoy the dating process or learn more about yourself and potential dates/partner. Coaching sessions for the first two to three months will last for 60 minutes each session. After this time, I will coach you as needed over the phone in between your dates and as needed for 30-60 minutes. My prices are $125 an hour but include emergency dating help calls (5-10 min) and unlimited email support. I also provide free ebooks to further educate and support you. Please contact me today to set up a session. My services are 100% guaranteed or your money back. Sliding fee scale is also available if finances are challenging at this time. Please make a request ($75 - $100 per hour).
Contact me today if you would like to hire a Dating Coach or if you have questions.
Get the expert dating guidance and support you need to be successful in your dating and/or relationship journey!
I would recommend a dating coach if:
- You haven’t had a date in a year or more
- You attract men or women with similar flaws
- You can’t remember how to flirt or aren’t sure why you should bother
- You don’t get many second dates
- You complain more about dating than you actually date
- You feel frustrated with dating and don’t understand the opposite sex
- You want to have fun on dates without taking each date so seriously
- You want to create the possibility of a loving partner in your life
If even one of these statements fits with you, dating coaching with Cathy will make all the difference in your ability to have fun on dates and possibly find love.
If having fun on dates is what you only desire, I can help you:
1. Have fun on your dates! Dating doesn't have to be a chore, you can have fun and continue to learn about yourself.
2. Be more present on dates. If you show the real you, the odds that your partner might also be real are alot higher.
3. Plan great dates that will be a hit!
4. Provide you dating ebooks to read and discuss
5. Help you create your online ad and support you in the online process.
6. Support you with breakdowns, fears, conversations, questions, etc. between dates
If you want to create the possibility of attracting a loving relationship, I can help you
1. Have dating be a fun and learning process. I will help you with all the 6 areas above
2. Create a great foundation for you to find a loving partner through questions, exercises and coaching conversations.
3. Create your very own "Owner's Manual for Love and Relationship".
You can give this very special manual to a potential partner. The manual will be your very own book about who you really are which usually brings relationships closer because the person can trust and respect your vulnerability. If he/she get scared away from knowing the real you, then aren't you glad that you didn't waste any more time on a partner that is not for you? Either way. the manual is a huge support for what you are up to in relationships. Below are some topics for the manual:
- What you want and don’t want in a relationship (most important areas)
- How you sabotage relationships
- Breakdown triggers and breakthrough moments (what brings you back to being) in relationships
- Patterns when dating and in relationships
- Fears-What gets you afraid in relationship? What are you hiding or afraid your partner will find out about you?
- Self Defense- How do you cover up fear in relationships?
- Essence- Who are you behind all of your fears and self-defense? This is what attracts people to you in the first place.
- Creating the relationship of your dreams from your essence. What would that look like?
- Ideal partnership. What would that look like?
- How do you avoid intimacy?
- Your future dreams, goals, commitments.
The purpose of giving this manual to someone you are seriously dating or in a relationship with is to share who you are and what you want in relationship, your fears, self defense, essence, what you want in a relationship, commitments in life and future goals. This manual takes away the mystery and/or games of hiding the parts of you that you are not as proud of. Eventually these things will get figured out and usually upsets occur because the other person is shocked by this discovery. This way the cards are on the table. With the information in the manual, they can see it isn't personal when you get scared. This is only what you do, not who you are. As you open up, you will find out that your partner will also become more vulnerable and honest.
The manual will also provide your partner access to when you are afraid and can consider pointing it out. It's like turn to chapter 2 and say, "I notice what you are doing x...., you seem to be afraid". Your partner will realize it is your stuff from the past, and not about you. By exposing and acknowledging these uncomfortable parts of you, it takes some of the fear away. Acknowledging fears is the first step to overcoming them. Hiding them keeps them around.
Making this manual will create vulnerability and risk which is needed to build trust in relationship. You and your partner can explore the possibility of an authentic relationship with all of you. This manual isn't created overnight. As your coach, I will support you with questions and exercises to create this manual. But in the meantime, I want you to go out and have fun on dates!
Coaching Logistics
I will coach you for one hour a week over the phone or in person (if you live in San Jose or the Bay Area) for the first two sessions to establish a plan. We will then do weekly follow up calls for one hour to discuss your dating plan and possibilities! It will take two to three months to establish a basic foundation that will really help you enjoy the dating process or learn more about yourself and potential dates/partner. Coaching sessions for the first two to three months will last for 60 minutes each session. After this time, I will coach you as needed over the phone in between your dates and as needed for 30-60 minutes. My prices are $125 an hour but include emergency dating help calls (5-10 min) and unlimited email support. I also provide free ebooks to further educate and support you. Please contact me today to set up a session. My services are 100% guaranteed or your money back. Sliding fee scale is also available if finances are challenging at this time. Please make a request ($75 - $100 per hour).
Contact me today if you would like to hire a Dating Coach or if you have questions.